Notice, how did you approach these questions? From what perspective? What if there is a part of you that is strong and resourceful WHILE at the same time there is a part of you that isn't? Congratulations, you are a human! And I want to add this:
WHICH part of yourself you choose to be in conversation with MORE OFTEN determines HOW MUCH (or how little) joy and fulfilment you experience in life.
Start paying attention to which part of you is in charge.
There is a version of you that knows that you can actually handle most of the challenges. It becomes visible when you are allowing yourself to dream, to think "what if I could?". That's the person you love and enjoy being. And sometimes, when trusting that voice, you've taken steps towards a dream. Or stood your ground for something you believed in, with dignity and strength. Or were ok with transitioning into the unknown. At the same time, somehow and somewhere and sometimes you can change when faced with pressure, deadlines, of fears. Suddenly, there is less of you that you enjoy and more of you that you don't. "What if I could?" changes into "Why I can't or shouldn't try". And then another opportunity, another year passes.
What if you could not only remain your better self that you enjoy while facing the resistance, but also look forward to such stressors, because you will start seeing them as instruments for your own growth?
Or perhaps it's completely the other way around and you can't handle the quiet, always doing, achieving, conquering. And yet, being always busy is making you tired and unable to relax. What if that was your challenge? To learn how to be more while doing less?
The goal of our work together will be to first design, and then build, a life that you would love living. And since your life consists of at least several pieces (career, growth, family, expression, fun and others), we will be touching on all of them, but which ones – it will be always up to you.
As we work together, you will start noticing patterns of decision-making that remain the same for you, whichever area we touch, which is why good coaching is transformational coaching in how a person evaluates themselves and the world around them, to be then used in any of the areas chosen.